Comment on this story Comment Dear Amy: My husband had an affair eight years ago, but it feels like I found out yesterday. I hurt every day. I filed for divorce when I found out. He begged for a second chance and
Comment on this story Comment Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: I am so angry at my husband, and I don’t know what to do. He lost his job, and it took months to get the real story. First he was
Comment on this story Comment Dear Amy: My husband’s job requires that he be active on social media. His primary account contains mostly work-related content, but he also uses it to direct people to some personal writing and photography. He has several
Comment on this story Comment Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: I don’t accept my spouse’s risky behavior. He puts himself — and by extension, me and our marriage — in positions where terrible harm could occur. Wouldn’t get vaccinated against
Comment on this story Comment Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for 10 years. We each have two grown children from previous marriages. My children love and accept my husband as family. My husband’s children have never accepted me.
Comment on this story Comment Dear Carolyn: I know I can’t control my spouse, but how do I not get left holding the bag? He has very, very poor health habits: eats horribly, never sees a doctor, gets little exercise. The habits
Comment on this story Comment Dear Amy: My husband and I — now empty nesters — live alone in a large four-bedroom house. My husband doesn’t qualify as a hoarder, but maybe only because I am constantly trying to organize everything. He
Comment on this story Comment Dear Damon: A few years ago, the high school seniors in our small town organized a Black Lives Matter rally. My husband and I went. It was a moving, successful event. After, I walked into the local
Comment on this story Comment Dear Amy: My husband and I recently celebrated our eighth wedding anniversary. We were both widowed and in our early 50s when we met and married. We were thrilled to find each other and to have the